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TOOLS &
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Conscious
Language and Young Living
Marcella
Vonn Hartig and Robert Tennyson Stevens
This is Tape #2 in a series of empowering tools and
technologies Young Living Essential Oils in sharing with
you to reach your full potential life and in your
business. This is Tape 2, "Conscious Self Talk."
My name is Marcella Vonn Harting and I'm here today with
Robert Tennyson Stevens, Founder of "Mastery Systems
Conscious Languaging." We are going to explore
inner talk and how inner talk creates our reality.
We are going to expand and demonstrate various
possibilities and options with the use of Conscious
Languaging to upgrade out internal dialogue (or inner
self talk) into self empowerment (or self victory).
Robert Tennyson Stevens
Hi, Vonn. I am excited to share what we are going
to be doing in this particular Tape 2 of our taped
series. I realized just before we bagan, this will
be the first time I have actually shared this much
material in such a short period of time. The tools
I use and am sharing with other people allow me to
remain self-empowered, independent of whatever is going
on in my life, or independent of (or in relationship
with) the reactive patterns that may come up in me or my
limited belief systems. So this is a profound
opportunity to share tools with our team on how to be in
our life, have reactivation come up, hear our own
limited dialogue, and make shifts in our belief systems
through our language.
Marcella Vonn Harting
So, what this really looks like is we are going to go
into
exploring our specific personal belief systems about
prosperity, worthiness, receiving,
(receiving acknowledgement, receiving money, receiving
thanks from those we help, and receiving large checks
from Young Living Essential Oils).
Robert - What is Internal Dialogue?
One of the first things I am aware of in languaging
is--and I am going to set this as a matrix so we will
understand and I am going to come back to it over and
over again--I have internal dialogue. What that
means is any phrase, any body sensation, any aspect of
my life that is going on for me that's keeping me from
being fully and completely present in my life.
So I could be worrying, "What if I can't, what if I
could" or "I've got to, I should" or "I wish they would
do so and so" or "How am I going to get this to happen"
or "just the dialogue that can go on in our lives that
keeps us from experiencing NOW.
Vonn - That Little Voice Inside
You mean that little voice that is constantly talking to
me, that's judging, that's keeping me here, that I
continuously hear in the back of my head--are we talking
about that little voice?
Robert - I Have a Little Voice, too!
You mean you have one of those! I do too!
Yes, that's the one. We are going to talk about
that little guy inside or the little gal inside who is
going, "Oh, no, no, no--I don't think you can.
That's not a good idea." Or there are other voices
that we resist or may have resisted in our lives that we
still carry around, and sometimes it is played across
the screen of our awareness as if it's us, and
usually we picked it up from someone else.
We are going to talk about the relationships of our
belief systems as we find them in internal dialogue.
In other words, internal dialogue literally reveals our
belief systems, and internal dialogue will start coming
up the minute we start making new choices. If I
say, "I choose to be abundant..." then any of my belief
systems stored in my BEING (recorded in my body,
recorded in my memory banks, recorded in my DNA,
possibly) will have an opportunity to say, "No, no--what
about me?" or "You can't" or "You can't afford" or
"You're not that type of person" or "You're not good
enough" or whatever. We are going to find those
patterns and shift them.
Vonn - Seminar Changed my Life
Bob, this takes me back just with my little voice going
on when you are talking right here. it takes me
back to when I was 22 years old and my husband and I had
just been married a year, and we took a course on Time
Management and Priorities in Our Life.
In this course it was the first time in my life that I
actually sat down and
put my goals on paper.
My experience of this for the first time was a stretch
for me to actually look in the big picture of life and
ask, "What are my heart's desires?" It was a
challenge for me to actually to
write down
my goals, to even look at, "Am I worthy to have these
goals, to receive these things in life.
The science behind...Writing It Down
Writing Goals is Worthy Effort
And in this course my husband, Jim, and I wrote down our
goals. The way that been aligned on how to do this
in this course is we wrote down our goals (our heart's
desires) for one year, then we went to five years, and
then we went to ten years in our lives. It was a
push for me; it was a stretch for me. We had
written all those thongs down, put our pencils back on
the table, and the instructor of the class went on with
some explanation on goals and what goals look like in
our life. The he said to us, "Pick up your pencil
and take that list of goals and get outrageous with that
list!"
Get Outrageous with Your Goals!
For me, just going right back into that moment, I picked
up that pencil and I thought, "Oh, my gosh, how do I
make this list outrageous!" The truth of it is for
me, just writing that list was really a push in my life,
and I got outrageous with that list.
We were timed on this. We put down our pencils and
the instructor actually took us through the process
three times to a place where I took my original list and
got outrageous, and then got outrageous on my
outrageousness! It actually pushed me beyond what
I ever thought I could do with my life, because the
truth of is is, when I got outrageous on my
outrageousness, my original list was like it was already
there for me.
Robert - Going Beyond Your Reality
So, in other words, ponder the idea that the brand new
piano teacher for the young student comes and he teaches
him something that is very difficult to a child who has
never done piano before. He says, "Practice that"
and the kid's not doing very good. The piano
teacher comes back a week later and listens to what he
does and then he teaches him something very difficult.
The parents are watching and thinking..."What's this?"
(This is important to stretch our reality.)
Well, the kid now is practicing that music with great
difficulty, and the piano teacher comes back on more
week later and now he is starting to get him into some
Mozart, something really profound and very deep.
The kid is really struggling with that.
The teacher goes away and comes back and the parents
say, "Look, something is off here. He's not
learning anything. You're teaching him stuff
that's really difficult. What's up?" The
teacher says to the boy, "Alright, go back and play the
first piece." And the child could play the first
piece now. "Go back and play the second piece..."
and the child could begin to play the second piece.
So what I am hearing you say is you are going beyond
your known reality, which is really what we all require.
Yes, and I would like to share that there was a study
taken, and in the book, The Pact of Power,
written by Mack Newton (who has been a mentor in my life
since 1994), he shares this: "Analysts studied the
Harvard graduating class of 1953 and found that only
three percent had a clearly-defined goal for their
future. The study was followed up twenty years
later, and they found that those three percent were
worth more in financial terms than the entire other 97%
put together! So I think it is a really good place
to start, actually writing down our goals. What
that can do in our lives is remarkable.
I want to go back to my story and share with you how all
of this really came about, how I got to actually look in
my life and see how this made a difference.
A year ago I was with my parents coming back on a trip.
It was just me with my parents. My father and my
mother and I got into some conversations of our life.
This whole conversation happened when I offered to pick
up the dinner tab one evening when my parents and I were
on this trip.
My father, being the man that he is and the
father--always taking care of me, his daughter--was in
the habit of just picking up the check.
Financially, I am in a place where picking up this check
was just like breathing for me, and in the past (a year
ago) for my parents this was a little bit of a
challenge.
I share that in a way that my parents have worked and
were working 9 to 5, punching a time clock, and for me,
it was real simple to pick up this check.
For my father, it may have meant that he may not have
had lunch next week; it could have been his lunch money
to pick up this dinner for us.
We got into a conversation and my father looked me right
in the eye and he said, "Vonn, what makes you so
different than us?" I said to my father, "Daddy, I
have different belief systems than you do about money."
A Change in Belief System on Money
Why I relate this story is it all happened 22 years ago
when I took this course and wrote down my goals.
For the first time in my life I evaluated my belief
systems about money. I looked at my life, I looked
at my parent's life, I looked at my grandparent's life,
I looked at my great grandparent's live. I looked
at my genealogy and looked at how my parents and the
people and the people around thought about
prosperity and about money.
The thing that I noticed is my mother. It looked
like she had a belief system in the past that you had to
work hard for money that you get. And in that
course, I looked at my life and I thought, "No, I don't
have to work hard to receive money in my life.
Money grows on trees." And actually, the funny
thing about that is, money does grow on trees!
In that course I got reevaluate my life and I looked at
a belief system of always having enough money to do
whatever is in my heart's desires, and do you know--all
of my life I have always had enough money to do what's
ever my heart's desire.
What Makes You Different?
So, when my father asked me, "Vonn, what makes you
different?" I shared with my father, "Daddy, I
have different belief systems than you do." In
looking back at my life, my grandfather was a
millionaire. He made millions of dollars in his
lifetime. I look at that as being my birthright;
it's in my genealogy to have millions of dollars--it's
my birthright!
[As children of God, it's in all of our genealogy to
have it ALL!!! It's all of our BirthRights!!!
YaHoo!]
And
it is amazing how those belief systems have influenced
my life.
When my father asked what made me different I shared
with him this whole course that I had taken when I was
22 years old and how I had actually written this
outrageous list of goals in my life, making it up from
one year to ten years. After we finished the
course I had taken that list for both me and my husband
(we had been married a year) and I put both of our
lists, all of them from outrageous to outrageousness on
our outrageousness in an envelop and I labeled that file
Potential for My Life.
My Potential for My Life
I choose to know why I did what I did. It was not
part of the course; they did not instruct us to take
these goals and file them away, but that's what I did.
I came home with it, looked at it, and thought,
"What am I going to do with this now?" I put it in
a file and labeled the file
Potential for My Life.
There were years down the road when we were moving and
looking at records at tax time and I cam across that
file in the file cabinet. I pulled the file out
and Jim and I went through those goals and what was
amazing for us, we had actually attained everything on
those goals!
When my father said, "What makes you so different?"
I told my father, "Daddy, I really think this is what
makes me different--the fact that I held that back as
potential for my life, that I did not go in and justify
not having those things or look at, "Well, I'm not
really worthy" ore "This isn't really working" or "Maybe
this isn't really what I choose to have in life."
No. I just held it as potential for my life.
Robert - Potential with Specificity
...or the idea of, "It's not possible." I love the
trainer who was with you asking you to go beyond your
current reality or any of our current realties.
The definition of insanity is: Doing the same thing over
and over and over, day in and day out, and expecting a
different result.
What you did is you created a mental image or an
emotional picture (a file, so to speak) of your personal
potential and you did it in what we call "exacting
specificity" and you filed it. What I love is you
filed in in a manila folder.
In other words, you put it somewhere in your
consciousness and took you attention off it as a
potential possibility with specificity, and you got it!
[God's
Law of Cause-n-Effect...what you put in is what you get
out.]
Vonn - Dream Home Became Reality
Let me share with you how this actually showed up in my
life. In February my husband, Jim, and I will have
been married 20 years, and ten years ago we looked at
building our dream home. Actually, our dream home
was on that list of goals up to ten years in our life.
At the time, Jim and I (when we first got married)
actually bought a new home and it was tract home in a
little subdivision. I think we paid about $76,000
for this home and for us, in that time in our lives,
that was a push. The truth of it is, it took us
three years to put landscaping in our home.
Ten years later my husband and I went from this little
tract home to a million dollar home! There was no
in-between; we went from that tract home into a million
dollar home. We build this home. It took us
a year and a half to build it. We did it by
putting on our heart's desires.
[Our
heart's desires is God's Will for our lives, He put them
there. "In his heart a man plans his course, but
the LORD determines his steps." Dontcha just
love God.]
When I look back, for me it was a place in my life
(through the tools and technologies I have learned in
Conscious Languaging and with you and your influence in
my life) for me to actually look back and see what I did
that gave all of this to me.
That's why it was so profound when my father said to me,
"Vonn, what did you do? What makes you so
different from all of us--we all grew up the same.
We have all been punching a time clock from 9 to 5--what
makes YOU so different in abundance in your life that
where we are?"
In looking back on my life, I really see now that it was
that file of potential for my life.
Robert - Learn to Make Miracles
First of all, I love your story. It's an
inspiration to me personally, and anytime we have a
miracle--in essence that's like a miracle for me even
though we are following divine laws--it is still
miraculous. We have laws that we can follow.
My goal is to find the system within how you did that
miracle and bring it to my conscious awareness and be
able to do it in my own life, day to day, moment to
moment.
That is what we are going to do in this Tape 2 series,
find the tools that you use. Number one, as I
found it in listening to you is:
You went beyond your known reality--way
beyond with out any thought of, "Is it possible" or "How
is it going to happen" and
you filed it.
And so we are going to share today with all of you who
are partnering with me in listening to Vonn's story.
The minute I heard you say this, the first time I ever
heard you share this, I immediately went..."Oh, I'm
going to get beyond my known reality!"
We now call it "quantums outrage" (and it has the word
"rage" in it, so that's outrageous) and let's go to
quantum leaps; let's go beyond, beyond the beyond of our
known reality and what our heart's desires is.
Obviously, the universe has got the capability to supply
us.
Vonn - What are the Tools?
So, with specificity, what are some of these tools and
technologies where we can actually start to apply this
in our lives? Where we can actually look at, fee,
hear, and experience that little voice in our head?
When that little voice is saying things that are other
than our highest choice, what are tools and technologies
for us to shut that off, or just to acknowledge, or to
look at our highest choice?
Robert - Sharing What I Do
That is a great question. The first thing is, I
will share some of what I do, and then we will find out
what you do, Vonn, because we all have different tools.
I have found out (and a lot of books talk about this, so
this may or may not be new and yet I will share it) that
the instant I wake up in the morning: I remember to
give thanks to my Creator
for my day. (That's for me. That's my truth,
and I honor everyone else's truth.) Then, the next
important tool is to begin to
create my day
or to think of my day fulfilled, in specificity, with
exactness.
In other words, if I wake up in the morning and the
first waking conscious I have is my
gratitude for life
(and I do that specifically in my own way). I
begin to think of my morning, my afternoon, my evening,
and my completion. In other words, I see the end
from the beginning of my day.
God created the earth and He saw the end from the
beginning and He said, "It is good." So there may
be some truth in this particular model. For me,
one of the first steps is the instant I wake up in the
morning or as soon as I remember to (whatever time of
day it is when I finally wake up) is to say, "Oh,
yes--create my day! Very good idea!"
I imagine my day with wording. I imaging my day
being successful, happy with so and so, meeting so and
so, having this happen, having this amount of abundance
come in and feeling comfortable in enjoying it, having
harmonious communications--whatever is up for me in my
day. Instead of having it be a worry, I turn it
into my heart's desires.
Vonn - Do it with Grace and Ease
So in applying these technologies and tools with our
Young Living business, it's very easy then to create in
our day that we qualify with grace and ease, that people
who are attracted to Young Living Essential Oils come
into our life somewhat to this degree. Is that
what you mean?
Robert - Finding Passion
Yes, that people will find me. In other words,
have fun because we are doing an event here in our
Center. We are both sitting right now and you are
speaking and it's just wonderful. People have have
had many be a week to even hear about this and we are
getting phone call after phone call. I believe
this is happening because we are in agreement with
people finding the truth of what we are passionate
about, what we believe in (which is Young Living
Essential Oils, how effective it is in our own personal
experience, etc.).
So, yes, as we add specificity of "Oh," instead of "I
just want"; "I wonder if"; "Gosh-I hope so and so will
call"; "I'm not quite sure how to get hold of so and
so"; "Gee, no one is really interested in my business";
"It's kind of hared to get started"; "I'm not sure if
I'm going to qualify this month."
That's the kind of internal dialogue to pull out by the
roots and change into something else.
Vonn - Controlling the Inner Voice
So what does it look like for us to change this?
How do we really get hold of this little voice that is
actually self-sabotaging? For some of us, this may
be the first time we really consciously thought about
the thoughts of the little voice in our head and how it
is influencing our life.
Robert - Sharing Four Domains of Language
Exactly! The whole idea is to become consciously
aware. So in the domains of language we have
designed (or remembered may be more accurate) eleven
domains of language from the Language of Mastery and we
are going to share four domains for now.
The first domain is:
The domain of
Limitations of Non Choice,
which are words like "I don't want to be"; "Stop this";
"Not be fat." Those kind of words that really
aren't our highest choice. They are just "notting"
us (notting us up).
Vonn - Limitations of Non Choice
Okay Bob, so let's go back to Limitations of Non-Choice.
Let's look at a way to really get down and see what we
can do with this, how that little voice in the back of
our head is using these words and how it is actually
showing up in our life.
Robert - Changing Belief Systems
First, I would like to share on thing. If "want"
shows up in our internal dialogue, it's having
"retuning." In other words, the counterfeit can
show up. All of a sudden I choose abundance (or my
successful business) and any belief, any experience, any
memory that gets to be changed by me can potentially pop
up.
So many times I am with people and they choose abundance
and they go home after the training and some more bills
show up. The bills (the idea of owing) came in
because they won't fit into their abundance
consciousness. So in other words, they didn't
fail. They are actually succeeding because the
limited belief of "I owe" or "I can't afford" will come
to them to be changed. All internal dialogue is
coming up for a new option. In other words, it's
floating around as a memory, so it's coming up.
Vonn - Creating Reality with Beliefs
So we actually are creating our reality with our beliefs
and it brings it back in to prove to us that are beliefs
are working or are not working in our lives.
Robert - Don't Give Up on Change
Yes, if something didn't come up to be changed, we are
probably not doing something. In other words, if I
choose to be clean in my body (any of you who have done
any of the cleansing techniques that we have know what
it's like), if I go clean a closet, the whole room might
get really messy before I get my clean closet.
And yet, we don't give up. We don't go, "Oh,
there's more dust on the floor--I'm not going to do this
anymore!"
That is what in the past--I am affirming in the past--I
noticed I have heard a thought pattern of, "I don't
know" or "I'm not good enough" or "I can't afford."
And I believed it.
So within the model of taking our inner talk and taking
internal dialogue and turning it into it's not bad.
It's just my wanting self coming back for a new option,
and I have choice in any moment.
Vonn - Lessons from Life
So, for me, when I look in my own life and I look at my
childhood and my mother who worked three jobs at one
time (this happened at one time in my life) to put food
on the table for my brother and sister and me, I look at
what seemed to me to be her belief system and it is, "I
work hard for the money that I get in life..." and yet,
her father was a millionaire.
At one time in her life she lived in a beautiful
abundant mansion. There were servants. She
grew up a good part of her life in this abundance.
Where is it my mother came to that place of punching a
clock and holding down three jobs and life looking
really hard. For me, when I evaluated that, I
really got the answer. It was my father's belief
system. The man my mother married, his belief
system is, "You work hard for the money you get..."
and for my mother, she took on my father's (her
husband's) belief system,
Robert - An Honorable Belief System
By the way, one thing I want to share is that anyone's
belief systems aren't bad, like your father, for
instance. His was a really pure belief system.
"I work hard. I'm a good person. I'm a good
man."
It's what I call a "European work ethic." You work
hard forever just to barely break even and you don't
spend any money and you save it for a rainy day.
Well, that's a belief system, it's not good or bad.
It's heart-felt and it's real and it's a belief system.
Allow Yourself to Receive Abundance
How about we make new options of abundance? We
allow ourselves to receive goodness just because we are
good, just because we love.
These are some big shifts we are introducing today.
We will go through some of the concepts of languaging
and you and I will play back and forth to help anyone
listening, on how to take a word pattern or belief
system that comes up inside and what to do with it.
Realize that wanting isn't bad. [There simply
isn't any Grace in it.] Any word pattern isn't
bad, or even where it comes from. If we took it
on, like an influence (influenza, the same idea), it
just means it's not good or bad. Even if we took
it on, we can change it.
Vonn - Define "Want"
So let's go back to the word "want and let's define the
word so we can really look at, "Is that word our highest
choice?"
Robert - Want = Lack
So if I say the word, "I want," what I'm saying is "I
lack." If I say, "I want to do this or that." even
waking up the what's going on inside of me, it's a huge
step, and I am aware of it. If I catch myself,
even if I go, "I want to wake up to what I'm wanting..."
there is a want to want. I could say, "I make a
new choice."
Vonn - Gary Young's Story
What comes up for me is Gary Young's story. Some
of you know Gary Young's story, that when he was in his
20's a tree actually fell on his head and knocked him a
foot and a half through a pair of snow shoes. This
man was actually paralyzed on one side of his body and
from the waist down and was in a wheelchair for 20 1/2
months. In a persona conversation with Gary, I
asked him one day, "Gary, what really got you out of
that wheelchair? What was life for you in that
wheelchair?"
Again, it's like my father asking me, "What makes you so
different?" I was in a conversation with Gary
Young and I asked him, "What got you out of that
wheelchair? What did you do that you got out of
that wheelchair?"
Gary said to me, You know, Vonn, the first year I was in
that wheelchair I was depressed. I was really
looking at my life and I was angry that my life as I had
known it was taken away from me. I was depressed
and angry." He added, "The second year I was in
that wheelchair (and he was actually in that wheelchair
20 1/2 months), in my depression I attempted suicide on
my life three times."
Actually, the third attempt of suicide was what got him
out to that wheelchair. He was going to "fast"
himself to death, and in fasting he started to gain his
health back. Gary said to me, "You know, when I
was in that wheelchair, I was in a place where I didn't
want to read, I didn't want to do anything like that.
I would just lie there and go into an imaginary state.
I would dream I was walking!"
"I just fantasized of what my life would look like like
not being in this wheelchair, of what life looked like
when I was walking and playing on two feet."
So when sharing this, it reminded me of that story and
how profound, again, this imaginary state is. This
little voice in our head and what that does for us is
powerful, because what I see with Gary is that he
partnered in fantasizing with that little voice in his
imaginary state. He imagined playing on two feel.
Robert - Magic of Imagination Activation
He did it with exacting specificity. I am involved
in imagination activation, as you know, in a technology
called "Outcome Facilitation" which words like this: It
takes our "I wants" and it turns them into "I choose to
have" and make a new choice. "I claim" is another
phrase, and the next phase is, "Now that I have it, how
do I feel?"
In other words--own it, claim it, and then imagine from
it. So as we go through each one of those we
will even add more.
Let's say if I have a word pattern of, "I can't"; "I
can't do it"; "I can't understand..." it might be, "I
choose to understand." That's the process of
moving toward our outcome. Then go to, "Now that I
understand, how do I feel..." or "What am I smelling?"
And, of course, those of us who love our oils, can add
in these beautiful aromas that we are given through our
company. So, if I say, "It's too hard," I can say,
"I choose to make this easy." Then add to it, "Now
that it's easy, what's my life like?"
Let's use our imaginative personality or capability or
divine ability. Take the words, "I am, I am that I
am, I am a genie." I love the word "imagine" as a
possibility of who we really are.
What are we capable of? Everything that is in our
world today has been literally imagined before it came
here, whether God imagined it first, or we are imagining
it second. Do we use the energy?
Vonn - Daydream about Your Heart's Desires
So in these tools and techniques, one of the first tools
that we are bringing forth here is to to into that place
of, "I am a genie..."in your life and daydream about
your heart's desires. And then to take it to the
next step and
write it down.
Robert - Write it Down!
Yes, write it down! One of our things is
"Conscious Creative Mind Mapping" (which I know you
share in all the trainings you give for Young Living
Essential Oils and also in teaching Conscious Language.
To be able to just simply write down with exactness what
our choice is --including who, what, when, where, how
often, what way, shape or form, what smelling, what
feeling, what seeing, what hearing, what tasting, what
emotion, what direction is it going--brings our
subconscious to our current reality.
In other words, our subconscious will leave our current
reality (that may not be our highest choice) and will
actually bring to us our newly--imagined state because
it literally becomes more real than our unwanted state.
Of course, if we resist our current reality--if we don't
want it, if we hate it, if we judge it--we will have it
forever. Because what we resist we become--that
old model--what we put our attention upon.
Learn to Imagine...
It's important to get to the dreaming. I remember
my wife was in a class I was teaching at one time.
We were helping her imagine--and to imagine takes the
entire endocrine system to work (pineal, hypothalamus,
pituitary, medulla, thyroid, parathyroid, all the down).
It takes the entire system. I finally figured it
out. That's why some people imagine and some
people are learning to imaging. They are raising
their body frequency to imagine. They are
cleansing until they can imagine, she couldn't get it.
Somebody turned around and said, "Helena, just pretend!"
And that's all she required, and she was off and
running. What she imagined (what she pretended)
could happen. Look at the word "pretend" (like
intend), we "pre" have it happen. It's not just a
fake thing; we actually pre-intend it.
So as she pretended this amazing healing with our 25
year-old daughter, Minyon, it literally transpired,
because she could conceive it and was in that moment
receiving it. It is don in imagination; it's done
with feeling and all of our senses, and it's done in
language.
Vonn - Brain Power Activates Brain
BrainPower is a wonderful new oil that Gary has
presented and just given us in this company, and what I
see in the future where we are going, is there is so
much more information that is coming to us right now on
our brains. Just in the last 15 years we know more
about our brains than we known in all the years prior.
And BrainPower is an oil that literally
activates, puts oxygen in the brain so that we are in a
place of "then," starting to breathe and looking to
activate the brain. Your dialogue with me right
now has, again, helped me recall what Mr. Young shared
with me about a story of when he had his cancer clinic
down in Mexico. One of the imagination activations
he used to do with his patients was he would bring them
all up into a family room and everyone was just very
comfortable with couches and recliner chairs or
whatever. I have actually seen pictures of his
clinic where he taught in this room. One of the
things Mr. Young would do with his patients was he would
have them go and fantasize what their life looked like
and felt like. He asked them to experience their
life in a healthy body. Gary said to me, "This was
so hard. In the past this was so hard for my
patients. I literally found it difficult to get
them to imagine life because they were so caught up in
their physicalness, in their pain."
Robert - Give Yourself Permission
They were caught up in their internal dialogue, and I
experienced the very same thing as Gary did, where when
people would say, "I can't..." until I learned about
conscious languaging. I would actually think they
couldn't as well. I would want for them to be able
to, and now the individuals who say, "I can't," (now
that we are learning conscious language) they go, "Oh, I
choose to be able to, and I give myself permission
to..." and just by languaging and changing our belief
systems, it happens more and more easily.
Vonn - Let's Go on Vacation
So Gary found that it was actually easier just to say,
"Okay, let's go on vacation. If you are on a
vacation, who is with you? Where are you? What are
you doing?" That actually was a model.
It puts a smile right on my face being in this room with
you, thinking about how Gary (and thank you, Gary and
Mary, for allowing Bob and I to share this information,
because you have been doing this for 25 years with all
or your patients). Our languaging is so important
in our health, and Gary has seen this.
He has applied it and he has looked at, "In the
beginning there was light," and wow, there was light.
Robert
Even the "Let there be light" wasn't an effort thing.
It was just the consciousness of, "Let there be light"
for you in my prosperity possibilities." You
triggered something for me, Vonn.
Gary Young, I believe, is creating the combinations of
nutrients and oils that make it easy for us to attain
what he has attained in resurrecting his own life, to
share with us just some of the oils in combinations for
emotions.
Vonn - Oil Blend Names Tell All
This get really fun. We have an oil blend called
Joy and so Joy brings in the resonance,
the frequency of joy in our life.
We have a blend called Forgiveness, it brings in
the frequency of forgiveness. Harmony,
Peace and Calming, and what is really fun is, it's
very simple. The names of our oil blends literally
are what they say they are. How simple can it get!
Peace and Calming brings in peace and calming in
our life.
A blend called PanAway--actually this is a great
place to reiterate what happened with PanAway.
This blend was called PainAway and the FDA came in and
said, "Can't call it PainAway anymore." So we just
took the "i" of PainAway and it's now called PanAway.
This is for some of you who have questioned , "Well,
what's PanAway?"
We have blends called Release, Relieve It, Passion.
Our whole theme this year is on passion. How many
of you have passion? You wake up in the morning
and you have passion to live your life, and if you are
are other than in a place, if you are finding it
difficult to find passion in your life, I encourage you
to play with that oil. Put a little Passion
behind your ears, on your wrists, rub some on your feet,
just smell it. Bring in passion in your life.
Robert - Frequency in all Things
All words are frequency. All
feelings are frequency.
I studied with Dr. John
Christopher and many of the other herbalist and the
native American approach to herbology. The concept
I learned so beautifully was, every time there is an
illness or weakness or a toxin on whatever it is, God
has an herb to take care of that.
You know, the universe has balances and so Nature will
bring something forth (even if it's not on the planet
now). Every time man comes up with a new toxic
chemical, it seems like the botanists will say, "There
are five new plants over here that will actually take
care of it." The oils, I believe, are divine
personalities (is the way I approach them) to give us
the frequency until we, ourselves, return to our divine
or our full healthy frequency.
So work together with our plants
to let the plants help us remember joy or passion.
Even the word "passion," that root of it is "entheos" or
"enthusiasm." Entheos
means God in you, God in me.
We take something like "I want" as
the state of not having. It's the state of lack.
It's an impossibility to our "I am." So if we say,
"I choose to have..." that's moving toward it.
Then, now that I have it, what's going to return is, "I
enjoy something, I flourish now." And the concepts
of thriving instead of just surviving get to be restored
to us as human beings.
Vonn - Experiment with The Feelings Kit
We have wonderful tools in this
company. We have a kit called The Feelings Kit
where actually The Feelings Kit (if you just
follow the directions on it) tells you what every oil is
a resonance of in your life. It tells you exactly
where to put that oil on your body, and then just allow
yourself to feel and just be in your feelings. Emotional Freedom Oils
My observation of the world around
me is, it has not been okay in the past to feel
feelings. What I noticed in traveling all over the
United States and sharing essential oils with people is
how essential oils are
catalysts for our emotions.
We are seeing this more and more.
Emotional Clearing Technique
I just returned from Egypt with Gary Young and 97 Young
Living distributors and trainers, and Gary actually
taught the distributors in Egypt an emotional clearing
technique that he studied and learned from Egypt, called
"the cleansing of the flesh and blood" and how right now
emotions are so important for us.
Where I see emotions come up is in that little voices,
so here again, we are right back into self-talk and this
internal dialogue.
Robert - Watch Your Word Patterns
I, too, have found the same thing.
That's fun that we are all
on the same page or in the same chapter of our lives.
For me, I also had worked with
oils long before I met Gary, and I just love what he has
put together, so I am on to this system now.
Again, the frequency of "want, need, should have to," or
"hate, judgment" or "pain, anger, fear, grief" are all
frequencies that contain word patterns. When a
word pattern returns to us, especially when it's
repetitious and seemingly keeps us from being fully and
completely present, it is not bad and we are not in a
bad space.
What feel is a greater truth that is coming back home to
us, is created (or even if we took it on from somebody
else, we are now feeding it), and it's asking to be
renamed.
Vonn
So how do we feed this? Do we feed this with
emotion?
Robert - We "Feed" by Many Methods
We can feed it by resisting it. We can feed it by
judging it; we can feed it by condemning it; we can feed
it by believing in it and talking it. One of the
ways to feed it is to just let it revolve inside of us
or say, "I can't," actually voice it. Even if I
say, "I can't"--I can just say, "Oops, cancel! Clear!"
I know you have some additional ones that you use.
Vonn - We Can "Delete"
How about, "Thank you for sharing!" "Next"
Let's take this back just a little bit for clarification
here. If the mind works like a computer, then what
we say happens, and the more specific we are,
the more instantaneous the manifestation.
So if I make a mistake on a computer, what do I do?
Do I delete? Yes! That's a great one.
In the past it has been a wonderful tool, and we have an
oil called In The Future and we have an oil
called Present Time. It puts us right in
the moment. Breathe it, put it on your feet, on
your wrists.
Robert - Grateful for Essential Oils
I also choose to remind us all that these oil
combinations were put together extremely consciously by
someone who has literally what I call "resurrected
himself." I am so grateful that he has had a
chance to give us these tools.
Vonn - Let's Wrap Up...
Let's go into just wrapping up on our domains and look
at, really quickly, how we can see ineffective choices
in our self-talk and in our business and what it looks
like in our Young Living business.
Robert - Beware of Self-Sabotage
I'll give an example: Say there was a whole row of
people each in a canoe and they were on this raging
river and they were all on the same side of the river
you were. You wanted to get across, so you walked
up to the first person and you said, "Can you get across
the river? Can you get me and my family across
this river safely?" This person said, "I'll try
to..." Would you jump in that canoe? No way!
Next canoe. The next person answered your question
by saying, "I hope so." I wouldn't jump in that
canoe either!
Next one. "Can you get across this river?"
"Well, I intend to." Nope, I wouldn't jump in that
one either!
So, in other words, our words can be self-sabotage.
It is the same in the way we join or be in our business.
For Young Living Oils, if we are trying, hoping,
intending; if we say, "I think I can do it" or "Perhaps
I can do it" or "I'm kind of committed" or "Possibly, I
can do it" or "Almost" or "I would like to," all of
those are ineffective and pure self-sabotage.
Vonn - Am I Actually Doing the Job?
So, for me, what this brings us back to is my
organization, is my partnerships, is my team with Young
Living. Is this organization one that people
choose to join?
Am I out there just self-sabotaging myself and my
organization in attempting and trying and thinking I can
build a business, or am I actually doing the job?
Robert - Bottom Line
The bottom line is to speak what we choose, to hear any
internal dialogue, and ask, "Is this my highest choice?"
Let's move out of trying into committing, to remembering
who we are. Remember that "I am" is power.
It has an action or a life force in action.
So let us speak and make choices of what we choose and
literally imagine our highest choice from the position
as if we already have it!
Vonn - Goals - Do It!
In review, set your goals. Get outrageous.
Write them down, be specific. Do it again and
again and again. Now imagine having, doing, and
enjoying your wildest dreams and your heart's desires.
Robert
Thank you, Vonn.
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