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Then when we get to be older and particularly with  young children–my son, my daughter–we’ve often times quit identifying them with their name.  We yell and scream at them, and they grow into young adults and they get married, and all of a sudden they are not Mary anymore–they are Dr. Young’s wife; they are Mrs. Young.  All of you ladies can relate to that–Johnny’s mother, Suzy’s mom, the “old lady.”  When I hear that I want to punch somebody.  That is the most disrespect-ul comment that can ever be made about the queen of the earth.  So it is often really important, guys, to go up to your sweetheart, put your hands on her cute little cheeks, give her a great big lip-smacking kiss, and call her by name and say, “I love you.”

 

I found myself the day before last at 2:30 in the morning just feeling such a wonderful feeling.  It’s not really the best time–but I just had to turn over and grab my sweetheart and squeeze her... “Honey, are you awake?”  She says, “I am now...are you okay?”  I said, “I just wanted to tell you how much I love you..” That’s really important.  It’s important for you to say it–not just think..  “Well, she knows I love her.  I work my guts out for her!” 

 

How many guys have said that to themselves?  How many of you have even said it to your sweetheart?

“Well, you know I love you–don’t be ridiculous!”  But it is important for you to say it. It’s important for them to hear it.  And ladies, the same applies to you. 

 

My little darling comes up to me so many times when I am working at the desk and rubs my back like I rub hers and she’ll lean down and she’ll say, “I love you..” and give me a little peck on the cheek.  Boy!  It just makes you feel like you could take on a whole world!   So do that. Doing some of these things reinforce and help anchor that sense of identity.  If you feel you have disconnected from your identity, then go to the inner child. 

 

Thumb-sucking Fallacy

Here is something that is very important for you–and I want to see you all do this.  How many of you have watched children suck their thumbs?   How many of you sucked your thumb as a child?  Those who didn’t really missed out!  Do you know  it is a proven fact that children who suck their thumbs have a higher IQ!  So those of you who sucked your thumb–think about that.  Why would that be?  You see, when you put the thumb in your mouth and you start sucking on it, that thumb presses right on the roof of the mouth, which opens the cranial sutures and allows the energy to travel from physical body to spiritual brain and make a connection.  So when a child is sucking his thumb, he is stimulating the pineal/pituitary and amygdala.  Also, where they are doing that, it gives them a connection to their identity. 

 

 And what do we do?   We say, “Quit sucking your thumb!  You suck your thumb one more time and I’m going to  slap you!”  Many parents have even put pepper on their children’s thumbs. 

 

 What  is  really interesting is that people say, “Well, children who suck their thumb have buck teeth.” False!  They would have had buck teeth whether they sucked or not.   You talk to a dentist and  ask how many children  he has fitted for braces who sucked their thumbs, and in an evaluation you’ll find that more children have buck teeth who didn’t suck their thumbs than those who did. Very interesting.  I  only had one child who sucked his thumb and that child doesn’t have buck teeth, but three of my other children who never sucked their thumbs do have buck teeth!  So I know that personally.

 

Releasing with  Inner Child

Now, when you  are  willing to reconnect with your body and go back to your childhood, put a couple of drops of Inner Child on your thumb and just suck it!  Let me tell you something–when you are in a shopping mall, if you want to do “cold contacting,” you just put a little  Inner Child on your thumb, put it in your mouth, and just walk around the mall a little!  I promise you, someone will ask you...”What are you doing!” 

 

It’s fantastic for conversation if you are shy! So this afternoon if you need some Inner Child, check with the facilitators.   We can arrange that!

 

All joking aside, when I was working and doing emotional release I watched this many, many times in private sessions.  I have only seen it twice with men, but more with women.  When they would start connecting with their inner child they would turn over and go into the fetal position, start crying, and the thumb would go in the mouth.  And that is exactly why I made Inner Child–for that very reason, and it worked every time.

 

You can also just rub that blend under the nose when they go into that fetal position, because the moment a person is in an emotional release and they turn and go into that fetal position, they are trying to get back into that connection, so you can just put the Inner Child right there.  The fragrance of the Orange oil just takes them right back and makes that connection.  It is really special.

 

Working with the Feelings Kit

 Coming back to the Feelings, this is a kit and it is obtainable altogether; however you can still buy the oils individually and use them individually. 

 

I have had people say, “Well, if I buy the Feelings kit, does that mean I have to use all twelve of them at the same time?” No–that is not what it means, no more than going to the grocery store and buying lettuce and cabbage and cauliflower and yams and potatoes and eggs and butter and corn flakes.  Do you take them home and eat them all at the same time?  But can you use all twelve of them at the same time?  The answer is “yes.”  Could you eat all of your groceries at the same time?  Some may be able to!   I wouldn’t think that would be the highest choice, but this is a little different.

 

Again, I am going to take you to another level of sharing with Feelings.  I don’t know if any of you have chosen to do this. 

 

Don’t Ever Steal Hope

Consider someone who feels no hope.  People are in that space a lot many times because others take the hope away from them.  They steal their dreams.  People who steal other people’s dreams are murderers.  Many times we parents are the biggest ones out there. because we steal the hopes and dreams of our children without realizing it.

 

Many times a child comes to you all excited about an idea, but because of being a mature adult and realizing that what they are saying  just wouldn’t work,

we tell them...”That’s a stupid idea!” and we dash their hopes and dreams.  After we do that two or three times soon the child quits coming and sharing their dreams. Then all of a sudden the child is no longer communicating with you.  So please, don’t be a dream stealer.

 

Using Dream Catcher

One of the oils that really should be in this kit is called the Dream Catcher.  It’s an oil blend that I use a lot.  I love  it and I wear it a lot as  an aftershave oil.  Dream Catcher stimulates the mind to dream and it helps you to  anchor onto those dreams. 

 

I believe  the biggest part about dreaming is following your dream all the way through to fruition.  Once you have burst the dream, it may not materialize in the exactness, but  if you stay with it you will get some form of it into completion, and generally it will turn out better than the original dream, so that is really important.

  

We All Need Grounding

 Grounding is very important for us in many aspects.  (1) We need  Grounding  to anchor us when we are going through a physical healing, (2) and we need it when we are going through emotional trauma and distress. (3) We need it when we are going into an emotional release to keep us from getting into the exaggerated feelings where we wind up fracturing and destroying the value  we could have received from it.  So that is very important.

 

Grounding is also very  beneficial  physically  for the respiratory tract because of the conifer oils in the blend.   It is anti-infectious to the respiratory tract, so I find that I use Grounding a lot when I do emotional work with people who have asthma or emphysema or conditions of that nature.  It is very, very important.

 

More on Hope

Coming back to Hope.  This is something that I experimented with some time ago when I was going through a trying situation .  I was telling Mary...”I am so tired of the garbage, so tired of the ridicule, the criticism, the slander..”  and it was coming from that place of despair and absolute fatigue–fighting against the elements.

 

I went up and took Hope and rubbed it on the auricular points on my ears.  I have always coached everyone to do that, because it has been so successful–and no change, no change whatsoever.  I  thought. .:”Well, maybe I am just too far down for Hope to have an effect.” 

 

An Oral Application..

About that time I had this feeling to just put it on the end of my tongue...and I did.  I opened my mouth and put Hope on the end of my tongue and then I put my tongue against the roof of my mouth.  When that happened, it  was like  it  just literally lifted!  It wasn’t the most delicious to the taste, but I wasn’t doing it for taste testing.  But it literally did open and lift, and it did bring back the sense  of  hope to where I could re-anchor, refocus, and go again.

 

Since then I have found I needed to do that with several of the blends–and it has really been powerful.  So if  you  put an oil blend on a part of the  body and it doesn’t seem to do the job for you, you might try other locations–like on the inside of the wrist where ladies put their perfume.  That’s a very soft, sensitive area for getting the oils into the blood steam quickly.

 

 Inside the thighs is another area where the skin is very sensitive and very quick to absorb.  Those using the past EssPro 7  know how effective that is.  So those are some things that can be very beneficial.

 

Experiencing SARA

When  you  experience SARA you  need to realize it not only works for sexual abuse and ritual abuse, but it also works for parental and spousal abuse.  Rub those oils in the location close to, or in relationship with, or in proximity of the abuse.  Always be sure that you have Release on over the liver and that you have Grounding on the sternum before you do this.  I have seen many  people go into a recall of the physical and sexual abuse and some that have even gone through what has been determined as satanic abuse, but it has been pretty hard to comprehend on some levels.

 

An Unforgettable Ordeal

I  had an experience in Chicago many years ago that led me to create this blend.  It was with a lady who was dying  and they couldn’t find anything physically wrong with her except she had multiple personalities and manic depression.  I was asked by her friends if I would work on her.  She attended a seminar in a lady’s home where we had 13 people in attendance.

 

As I started taking her through the emotional clearing she started screaming and clawing at her throat and then at her chest and then at her waist and then at her stomach. At different times during this process her tongue would protrude 9" and turn purple. I had asked six of the ladies who were her friends if they would please stay in the room with me, but before it was all over, only one was left in the room.  The others panicked–they were scared.  They left.

 

To make a long story short, this lady (as I was trying to hang onto her) kept ripping at her clothing.  She scratched her throat until it bled as we fought to try to hold her arms and  keep  them down.  My focus was to maintain contact with her and not break that contact at all costs.  Through the process, I was  upside down on the floor with her on top of me,. kicking and screaming and punching and slugging and tearing at her clothes until she had not one stitch of clothing on her entire body.  I  kept trying to hold her and pull her hands back away from her throat, as she was clawing and clutching her throat and would have literally strangled herself as she went through this.  Naturally, it terrified the other ladies.

 

 

Learning the Root of the Problem  

The long end of it was that when I was finally able to bring her through it and out of it 45 minutes later, she went into the fetal position sucking on her thumb and crying and sobbing (which lasted another hour and a half), and I never let go of her for the entire period of over three hours.  I maintained contact and kept applying oils–Release and Joy and Forgiveness.  I just kept reapplying them over and over.

 

When she finally gained her composure, the one lady who had stayed in the room then started to tell me a little bit about the story because she was a family member–and then the lady, herself, was able to tell (and for the first time after nine years), talk about the experience.  

 

She had been kidnapped in her seventh month of pregnancy and taken to Mexico.  She was sold to a cult that forced the delivery in the eighth month, used the umbilical cord to strangle the baby in front of the mother, and then used that infant as a sacrificial item. They took the mother with the placenta still in her womb into the desert and abandoned her there.  She was found eleven days later by some people who were rock hunting in the desert.  That was what she had gone through, something I don’t think that anyone in this room could even begin to relate to.          

 

Within six months this woman was living a  normal life.  The multiple personalities were totally gone at that time and her behavior returned to normal, and she was back in business for herself.  

 

Blessings of the Oils

I have seen so many beautiful things as a result of what the oils have been able to do for people.  That is why I created the Feelings kit–to assist in that.

 

If you have someone who does have a real heavy-duty emotional problem, I wouldn’t advice that you just give the kit and tell them to go home and experiment.  First, give them an oil–give them Joy, give them Forgiveness.  Second, it’s best also, if you’re working with somebody–as I said in the beginning–only use one or two oils at a time.

 

That experience  was back in the early days when I was exploring and first learning, and I practically floated her off the table with a  oil.  It is something I am very cautious of now, and I don’t go as aggressively as I used to because I realize that we need to let go a little at a time, so that can be very helpful.

  

 

Protect Yourself with White Angelica

Whenever you finish an emotional experience in your life–whether it is lying on your bed in the bedroom and putting a couple of oils on and going into a quiet space and discharging some of that emotion and feeling–when you are clear and you are through and back  into what we call the “real world,” then  take White Angelica and rub it on the chest and the shoulders and the back of the neck.  This just helps to seal and protect the etheric field from outside bombardment coming in and attacking you. 

 

I  like White Angelica to wear as  an aftershave, and I find that most of my emotional oils (Feelings oils) I use daily.  They  help to just keep bringing things up and allowing me to process and process and process and keeping things moving on instead of accumulating.

 

Don’t Let Emotions AccumulateI think if I could share one thing with you that is  very powerful, it would be...”don’t let it accumulate.”  That’s what we have had a habit of doing, simply because we didn’t know different.  That is something where I think you will find a tremendous value–to process every single day,   I encouraged you on Wednesday to have a quiet time of working out–and I use that time as well for this.  In  the morning I go in and I put my oils on and then go down and do my workout.  You can accomplish many things at one time.

 

Combining Hair Treatment with Emotional Oils

I have had a lot of people ask about my hair growth–it’s been two years now since I started religiously really working on it.   I have three oils that I work with specifically–that’s  Lavender and Ylang Ylang and Clary Sage.   Periodically, I will also do Cedarwood, but Ylang Ylang, Clary Sage, and Laven-der seem to be the oils that have been the real supporters. 

 

Before I go down in the morning to work  out, I will just take one of them and massage my  scalp really well.  If I am feeling angry I will take Release and put it around my liver and Forgiveness around my naval, and then I go down and do my workout.  During this time it allows me to process and let those feelings discharge.

 

Daily Processing is the Key

Folks, there is no way in this world that we can just do an emotional release once every other six months and  we’re okay, because every day somebody is saying something, or you are getting something in the mail or you are getting something on the phone or a situation in your home environment, or with a school teacher, or Suzy’s friend kicked her on the shins, or Johnny’s buddy has punched his eyes out, whatever–there is always something that evolves everyday that can create more negativity and bring it around you.

 

So use the oils daily to keep that release and keep the deprogramming going because the oils help in the reverse spin on the template transcription to where it will erase that information before it encodes it onto the memory RNA, the storage bank.  Those are things are very important, and the best way to accomplish it is to do a little bit every single day.

 

How Do I Use the Oils?

I don’t put the oils in my hair every single day.  I average three times a week.  One week I may do it five times; the next week I may do it once, but I will aver-age fairly consistently three times a week.   I don’t put the emotional oils on my body every single day, but I probably will average four times a week, and there will be weeks where I will do it every day and sometimes twice or three times a day.  

 

So it’s not an issue about doing it just once and then it’s all better–it’s kind of like doing Comfortone once when you are 50 years old (taking it for one day) and thinking you have just cleaned 50 years of debris out.  It doesn’t work!

 

It is a continual process, and as you go home and as you incorporate these concepts and ideas into your lifestyle (and it will become a lifestyle), what will happen (and many of you, I am sure, have experienced this).  If, when you get off to the office and you forgot to put Forgiveness on your navel, or Present Time on your chest, or Release over your liver–you’ll get out the door a ways and all of a sudden you’ll realize you’re undressed!  You’ll feel like you need to turn around and go back home and get redressed.

 

Gaining a Conscious Awareness

 When that happens and you have that feeling, then this is really a conscious awareness that you recognize the value of the oils and that you need to practice it every day until it becomes a fixed thing in your life-style–a  lifestyle transformation.  We can only experience that lifestyle transformation by working at it a little every single day, and when we mess up or we forget, then just say, “That’s okay–I’ll do it twice tomorrow!”  It is just kind of that way in life.

 

 Choose to Have Empowerment

 I want you to write in your notes that...”I choose to make a concerted effort in incorporating these techniques in my life daily.” 

      

Several things will happen here–not only will you start experiencing a life transformation, but you will also notice that you will be consuming more of the oils.  You  will be using more of the different oils than you have used at this time, perhaps.  It will broaden your vocabulary; it will broaden your testimonials; it will empower you with more to share with your down-line and your up-line.  It will empower them and it will bring you to a space of being more forward in the use of the oils.  It will give you a greater understanding of the value of using them more than one time a day or one time a week or one time a year.

 

When I hear you as distributors come up and say, “Gary, I still  have  a bottle of Joy that is three years old, is it okay?”  My first reaction is...”No–it’s not okay!  That tells me you haven’t been using it!”  If you are not going through a bottle of Joy every two months, you are not using it.  So  how  can  you experience the benefits of Joy if you are not using it?  No more than you can experience the benefits of Comfortone sitting on my shelf.  And you cannot share it  with other distributors or potential distributors if you don’t have that level of understanding.

 

Try New Products..

Folks, there is not a single product  I have not used.  I am sorry–that is not a correct statement–I have not used Femalin!   But I have used Dragon Time because in a past experience I thought...”Well, maybe if I put it on, the person beside me might get the benefit from it!”  (I am still researching that one, but I think it does have merit!)

      

Again, it is using the oils, getting the benefit, and seeing the value so you can share it with your folks.  Maybe it would be fun if you just made a commitment every month to try two new products.  That wouldn’t really be too much to ask–every month try two new products–until you have been through all of them. 

      

The products like Femalin and Femigen that are not really directed at my needs–my wife takes them, and I get her to report for me so we can experience them all. It  is really invaluable.

      

There is another area  I want to go into while we are here, and I think this is an area that we really  need.  Where we are going to go for a little bit is into an area that affects everybody in different ways and on different levels.

      

I had a very humbling experience at lunchtime.  One of the sweetest people on the earth came to me in absolute fear, paralyzed with a fear where she was afraid to talk to me.  She was afraid that I was angry at her.  There isn’t any way, shape, or form in this world that I could be angry at this precious spirit, but because of things that have been said back and forth and around about, it created that paralyzing fear in her. I am so grateful that she did put enough Valor on to come and talk to me...because I had no idea, and I couldn’t have helped her if I had not known.  I hope  if I have created that for anybody else  you will forgive me, because that is not where I desire to be.

      

There is a gentleman here with us today by the name of Ron Spence.  I would like him to  take a moment and share with you about (maybe not necessarily overcoming fear in this particular case), but it’s  where  I want to take you and help you deal with this in your business—and that is how to talk to people.  Then we are going to come back and deal with overcoming fear in personal life and fear in business. 

 

Ron  Spence

Someone asked me...”How does Gary develop all these products?”  And I said, “Well, he always has a personal reason for that–many times just because it’s a personal need..”

      

For example, when he was bringing on the oil,  Helichrysum, for hearing, he went to the doctors one day and said, “Doctor, I think my wife’s hard of hearing.  Is there a test that I can give her to see if she really is hard of hearing without her knowing it?”  The doctor said, “Yes, you go home and go to the other end of the house and yell...’Mary..’ and then listen to see if she responds.  He did that and he didn’t hear anything, so he got half way closer to her in the house and said, “Mary.”  Again, he didn’t hear anything.  Finally he got right up behind her and said, ”Mary!”  She turned around and said, ”What in the heck to you want–I’ve answered you three times!” That’s how Gary developed the product.  He realized he needed to improve his hearing!

 

Sharing Insights

 When I am out and about and am on the phone,  many times people try to get hold of me and my phone line is always busy because I am sharing stores about health and improvement.   A number of years ago–in fact, for over a decade I suffered with chronic fatigue and Epstein barr. 

       

Those of you who have suffered with that or continue to suffer from that or know of others who suffer from that or any degenerate disease–it takes away your life.  It puts you in prison and it is very difficult to function. 

 

Road Back to Recovery

When I met Gary some five years ago, he was the one who put my feet on the right path and taught me about nutrition and the impact that it has  in cleansing the body, and all about our environment and all the things that help a person come to good health.  After suffering nearly 14 years with that ailment (ten of those just really bad), within a number of months it was almost all gone!

      

It was a combination of a variety of things where many people would come up to me and say...”How did you do that?” It’s a lifestyle change.  It’s not just products (even  though  they  are  catalysts to  help you get there faster), but it’s a lifestyle change and all the things you have heard Gary talk about and teach, that I implemented in my life and got tremendous results very quickly.

      

It made me angry about the lies I had been told all my life about what it takes to have good health, and so many of the things that you hear in common, everyday life outside of this arena are things that just really aren’t true. You come to meetings like this, and this is where you hear a lot of  truth. 

 

Sharing with Others

On my way here I was riding on a bus with some people and they were on their way to go somewhere else and we just struck up a conversation.  I was coming to this convention and I basically shared with them about my experiences and how at one time I was extremely sick.  In fact, I even have a friend who was dying of cancer and I implemented the things I have learned.  I shared with them the fact that this person is alive and healthy today–and do you know what?  They are here!  They came here to learn more about this!

      

It is so easy to share; it is so easy to introduce people to truth. I dare say there is no one out there who hasn’t been unhealthy or have a family member who is unhealthy or a friend or a neighbor–it’s all around us.  And the reason why it is all around us is the environment we are in, the food  we eat, the all American diet,  the advertising on television, the chemicals, the food depletion–all the things that bombard us.

 

We could go on forever listing all the various things, but if you understand those things and implement them and take the correct products as catalysts  to help you get out of that space fast, you can have good health.  And I am an example of that because Gary has changed my life and my health.  I can’t put a price tag on that. 

      

So I am a living example of sharing that with everybody I come in contact with who wants to hear that story, and it touches the hearts of those who hear my message because they relate to it.  It’s in their life, or it’s in the life of their family or their loved ones.  So that is what happened.  I appreciate being here.

 

Gary  Young - Can We Follow this Example?

Now imagine what would have happened if every one of you had done the exact same thing that Ron did!  That you brought four people–met four people on the bus coming here to the conference, sold them about Young Living, signed them up, and brought them to the conference!   We would have had 5,000 people in this room on 300 tables!  Wouldn’t that have been fantastic!  We would have just kicked the walls out!

 

Justification Reduces Progress

We get so locked up in fear that we are not able to function. One of the ways you can tell you are coming from a space of fear is when you start justifying your actions.  Has anyone ever done that?  Of course not!  For example, like the person who says...”I just can’t sponsor anybody.  I don’t know how to talk about the products”.  “I don’t have enough knowledge.  I have got  to go gain more experience.” “Well, I don’t know if Lavender has sesquiterpenes or not..”

      

There we can go back to Frank Burns’ analogy when people ask him, “How do the oils work?”  His answer is.. “Just fine!”

 

Looking at Fear

So as we start looking at fear–and the reason I am back in the  physical  now  is  because we have to look at the physical and emotional both in order to bring it into the emotional and be better able to  understand it and facilitate changing it.  Fear is another tool ( just like anger) that is given to you by God, but it is a very real emotion and it’s a very powerful emotion.  It’s a very  good emotion to have, but where we cross the line is when we let fear become the ruling effort or the ruling energy of our life, rather than what it’s supposed to be there for. 

 

A Simple Analogy

Just a real simple analogy–fear is to sit here on your shoulder.  When you put your ice skates or your skis on and you are going to take on this big hill and you are standing up there having just gotten  off the chairlift and you are looking down and you are saying...”Wow!  This is going to be a rush!”  Fear is there to say ..”Maybe we should go down a little slow the first time.”

 

Now  it’s  your choice to decide whether you are going to listen  to  it and go down a little slowly the first time sto check out the run, or whether you just fire straight off from there and smack a stump.

      

On the other hand, fear might sit there and say, “Umm...looks pretty darned steep to me–I don’t know...umm.  I wouldn’t do that if I were you.  I think maybe we had better look for a different slope.  In fact, let’s not do this at all!  That chairlift return is looking really, really good!”  And pretty soon you are off your skis and back over on the chairlift going back down.

      

Now that’s how fear works.  Who is responsible for letting fear keep talking?  Yeah...when fear said, “May-be we’d better to down carefully the first time..” you would have said, “Okay.  Shut up now–I’ll take it from here.”

      

That’s what it’s for–it’s to warn you.  It’s to give you a little caution about how you advance, how you approach, how you attack.  It’s part of the protection mechanism in the human mind. Fear was not meant to be a destroyer.  It was not to be a dream-stealer.  It was there to be a protection mechanism and you need to understand that.  When you can understand that, then it will help you to take control of that protection mechanism.  It will help you to listen when it gives you a warning...”Okay..the sign says ‘45 mph–you are going 110!  It might be wise to slow down!’” That’s what it’s there for.

 

Fear of Rejection

Folks, we take it from there into the emotional and into the spiritual.  We get up in the morning; we look in the mirror.  “Yeah!  I can do this! I am going to go out and sponsor two people today!  I am going to share with them.  I look pretty good!”

      

Then you get out; you are walking through the shopping center and here is a person doing a survey and they say, “Would you participate in this survey?”  “Well, a...no.  I’d rather not.” or you say...”Oh, sure..” and you take the survey and you go over and find a place where you can fill it out and you bring it back and ask, “Is that what you wanted?”  And the person takes it and says, “Thank you very much.  I really appreciate that.  It’s been a big help for us to conduct this survey.” And you walk away.

      

Anyone  here ever have that experience?  Okay, why didn’t you share with them?  There is only one reason you didn’t share with them.  Fear–fear of rejection.  This is when we go into the emotion–fear of rejection.  How many have had the fear of rejection?  Wow!  Every human being!  How many would like to know how to overcome it?  We would have to be here until midnight!

 

Never Say “Can’t be Done”

I am going to come back to some of my own experiences.  Some of you have been here at the farm; some of you  have  been there three or four times and you have watched it evolve.  If you don’t have a personality like mine–because when somebody tells me...”You can’t do it “ Just watch!”

      

Can’t, again, is a word you can use or abuse. For me when people say “can’t,” it drives me. In fact, most of my employees know not to use the word “can’t” around me because they get a blessing.

      

When they say, “We will try..” they get an education.  Those are things we do that destroy our-selves.  If you don’t have a personality that drives you, if you don’t have the  fire in you that creates the anger to drive you when it’s impossible–then borrow it from someone else.  Find somebody you can align with who has a personality that will support you, that will give you their fire.  And if you cannot find somebody, call up 1-800-GARY and I will give you fire!  There is no way in this world that you are going to buy a correspondence program or you’re going to buy a video tape, or you’re going to buy a cassette tape that’s going to give you all the answers on how to overcome fear and rejection and be positive.

 

Reinforce with Tools

You are going to find tools that will help you take steps.  Conscious language is a tool that will help you take steps.  Writing your goals is a tool that will help you take steps.  Reminding  yourself not to get caught up in stinkin’ thinkin’ is a tool to help you take steps.  Getting tapes and videos are tools that will help you take steps, so reinforce yourself with tools. 

      

And folks, if you don’t move out of the physical negativity and the physical feeling of fear and rejection, how do you expect to overcome the emotional?  Think about it. 

       

This would never have happened  if I had listened to fear, if I had listened to the fear of  rejection that all the people around me were going to walk away because I wouldn’t listen to them.

 

As a Man Thinketh..

People only tell you.. “Don’t do that” because that’s a control issue.   If they can tell you not to do it and you don’t do it, who controlled you?  You gave them the power!  Right! 

      

And the same on the emotional.  About the time  you’re struggling  in Young Living and you are saying, “Golly, my check isn’t big enough, I can’t live off from it. I’m not making enough money.” ..who’s at fault?  You’re right.  You are!  Because somewhere along the way you didn’t make the choices that were necessary to create it to happen for you. And that is the bottom line.

      

You didn’t set the goals, you didn’t write the directions, you didn’t write the script to reinforce you and set that into place.

      

Now let’s take that same thing into disease. How many times have you  started coughing and thought, “Oh, I’ve got pneumonia!” or you start coughing and you think...”Oh, I’ve got a horrible allergy!”  How many of you ladies have had a pain in your breast and  you have thought...”Oh, I wonder if I am getting cancer.”  Anybody?  You bet your life      .  The moment you think it, you’ve got it!  “So as ye think, so shall it be.”

 

Are Your Prayers Working?

So when you are dealing with life on the physical, the emotional, and the spiritual, then you need to think about it.  Something I am going to share with you may help you.  You may be doing it already, but this is what I do every single day without fail. I pray. 

      

I have never asked my Father for anything because if I ask Him for something, that means I don’t have it.  Right?  So if  I pray and I ask for something, that means I have lack.

      

What would happen if you pray and say, “Father, thank you for blessing me with perfect health.  Thank you for blessing me with abundance.  Thank you for watching over my family..” (and you haven’t left yet!)  It may seem a little strange, but folks, you get exactly what you want, and if you give thanks for already receiving it, what’s going to happen?  You will receive it!  But you have to do it with conviction, knowing that is exactly how it’s going to be.   Some feel that is a little strange, but let me tell you–if the way you are praying isn’t working, that may be your first clue! 

 

Talk to your Father

Start by talking to Father first; start with believing, and every time you say, “Father... (cough, cough, cough)  thank  you  for (cough, cough, cough) my perfect (cough, cough, cough) health.”  It might be difficult for you to believe that.

      

So where are you going to start?  Are you going to wait until you are better?  Every time you pray and you say, “Thank you, Father, for my perfect health.” you’ll cough a little less.  And if you cough more, then pray more!  And the more you pray, the less you will cough because the more you repeat it, the more you will start to believe it, and when you start believing it, then it will start to happen in your life.

 

Making it Happen

When I was building these farms many times I would walk into the woods behind the ranch and I would get down on my knees and I would stay there until I could believe it. I would give thanks for that distillery already being built when I didn’t know where I was going to get another $5 to build another square foot of metal.  When I didn’t know where there was going to be another $10 to put another plant in the ground I would go out in the trees and I would pray and I would thank Him for the metal, for the plants, for the help, whatever I needed.  And the next day, the next two days, three days–whatever it was, (it isn’t up to me to put in a time frame), but it happened! 

      

And that’s how you move out of fear.  You move out of fear by knowing you already have it.  You give thanks for your friends, and if somebody criticizes you, they are not a friend, and thank God they are gone!

      

Yeah...it may hurt a little bit because that’s the emotional side of us.  We don’t like loss; we don’t like separation, but do you know what?  Sometimes your family is not always your blood, so don’t forget that.  And don’t forget  about  the people around you who have helped get you there who may not be blood, because that is your real family.  Don’t exclude them. Remember–there is no rejection in pure love.  There is no rejection in the pure spirit of God–none whatsoever.  When you have that pure connection, that confidence of knowing, then you will never have fear of rejection or guilt.  You might have sorrow–there is a big difference.  Don’t confuse the two.

      

And whenever you start feeling that fear coming up, then grab hold of an oil like Hope or Passion.  (Passion is so strong) and rub it on.  Let it take to you to your dream.  Let it connect you to where you want to go. Breathe it in and imprint that on the brain. 

 

Breathing Oils Correctly

I am going to teach you how to breathe oils so you can do it right–and this is really important, because you are going to use this for several aspects.  People will always say, “Well, how do we know if we are being duped?” 

      

If anybody brings up another oil to you, you are being duped!   I  never could understand distributors who send a fax and say...”Mr. Young, so and so says that their oils are purer than you oils.” They don’t exist.  There may be oils out there that have as good a quality, but there are none in the world that are better. So your commitment to what you have will determine how you build your business. 

 

Follow this pattern:

*     Put the oil to the left nostril and close the right nostril.  (Breathe in and out).

*     Pull that oil right over the top of the brain and  log it in. 

*     Close the left nostril and breathe through the right nostril the same way. (Breathe in and breathe out.)  Thank you!  Another confirmation for truth! 

*     Breathe it  all the way in and pull it back and layer it into that conscious memory, into the MRNA.

*     Breathe out and close the nose.

*     With both nostrils open breathe in and pull it  over the top.

 

Compare!

 If you want a fun experience–and I do this simply to teach you–go home, go to a health food store, buy an oil off their shelf.  It doesn’t matter which one (unless they say Young Living), then you won’t learn anything! Take it home.  Get your nose clear. 

      

Then take the lid off and just start twirling it here at the naval and let it start wafting up.  You don’t want to just jam it straight up there as I did earlier unless you are Gary or someone who has been doing it for a while.  But if you are new at it, it’s better to start at the naval and bring it up slowly.  When you get it up to the nose, pay attention to the feel of it as it is coming in and consciously, mentally, pull it over the brain and then take it to the left nostril because that fires the right hemisphere.  It fires intuitive brain first.  Pay attention to how it feels–if it’s sharp, if it cuts, if it digs, if it goes sideways.  Pay attention to how it flows–does it flow smooth? does it flow harmonically? or does it jab?  Then go to the right nostril (to the left hemisphere) and see how it flows.  Does it jab? does it poke? does it scratch?  Does it flow smoothly? 

      

Then clear the nose, bring it up slowly, and breathe through both nostrils.  At this point, a pure oil, a clean oil will be very smooth, very harmonic.  All the sharp notes that might have been there will come together when you breathe through both nostrils and if you have firing off to one side or the other again–without question

you have a cut oil.

 

Breathing for Imprinting

 Now when you are breathing for imprinting, say we are going to overcome fear...so you look at that and you say, “Okay–I’m not going to be afraid to go out there and talk to somebody today.  I’m not going to be afraid that I am not going to have what I need to make this happen. I’m not going to be afraid to overcome my disease and fight it.  I know that I’m going to be well. 

 

So take an oil that you really connect with, that you really love–it really doesn’t matter which one you choose, one that you connect with–and the reason why is because then you want to focus. 

      

Let’s just say, for an example, that you have a problem, that you have a have a toxic liver, or maybe you have it in  the  prostate or  the ovaries  or  wherever.  Hold the oil that you deeply love and inhale it, and  say, “Father, I thank thee for blessing me with perfect health.” 

 

Transcribe a New Message on the RNA

Then breathe that in and imprint that message to the MRNA.  And you keep doing it.  The breathing intensity with the oil molecule will, without fail, go to the receptor site.  It will create the electron exchange; it will stimulate the DNA template to transcribe that message on the RNA memory bank. And that is what the RNA will replicate in protein synthesis.  And that is how you start programming your mind to overcome your limitations.

 

No Passion?

If you do not have passion in your life there are a couple of things you can do: First, you can go to the grocery store and you can buy a bottle of those little purple jalapeno peppers and eat them until you get passion! Or you can buy a case of Comfortone and take it until you get passion!  Or you can bathe in Cinnamon oil until you feel passion!  Whatever works!  But first and foremost, you find a purpose to have passion about. And my belief would be that everyone in this room has a passion about Young Living.  Is that true? 

       

Alright...if that be your passion, then let it be your focus, and then find that oil–and Passion happens to enforce focus.  Breathe it in and imprint your vision of the passion with the Passion oil on the brain. 

      

What happens with that replication taking place, is every time you wear Passion, every time you feel it, it will stimulate the brain to create passion and trigger that feeling. 

 

Replicating Perfect Cells

Let’s say, for example, that ImmuPower is the oil you want to use to imprint...”Thank you, Father, for my perfect health..”  Every time you put ImmuPower on it reminds the brain, that receptor site, that DNA, to replicate perfect cells.

      

Now, if you can find a better way to build perfect cells than that–come and tell me, because that is exactly how it works and that is exactly how we can replicate perfect healthy cells.

      

When you spray  UltraYoung  in  the  cheek,  or you spray pregnenolone in the cheek, you say, “Thank you, Father, for this perfect health.” and let the digestive juices receive that memory transcription.

      

You will start working and slowly moving in that direction and then you will start finding that your body will reject the things that are stealing your health away from you, and every morning you’ll be drawn to that oil  you’ve programmed yourself with. 

      

Start doing it just one time and then go to another.  If you have depression, go to Hope and breathe in the Hope and just tell yourself...”Father, thank you for my hope..”  because when you pray in Father’s name it is the highest frequency that exists.  And when you couple that with the frequency of the essential oil, believe me, it does replicate!  You will start to see changes manifest in your body.  You’ll see changes manifesting in the outcome of your business and it will be great, it will be glorious and it will be wonderful!  And it will happen!

 

Use These Principles

Everything  I have created in my life in the last ten years has been from these principles–this farm, the farm in St. Maries.  When we bought the farm in Utah everybody (absolutely without question)  knew that Gary had  taken the biggest leap of stupidity  of his career!  I doubt that anyone would want me to sell it today.

      

Sometimes you may be the only one who believes in you, and for the most part of my life that is the way it was. Then one day I met a lady who was so turned on to the oils that she got attracted to me!  And now I have someone who, even when she doesn’t understand me, (even when she’s not sure or clear of my vision), this is what she has said to me.. “Honey, I believe in you.  I trust you even though I don’t understand.” 

      

That is powerful and we go forward, and it happens.  That is how you can change the status of disease, how you can change the status of poverty consciousness, how you can change the status of status-quo.  You learn how to program the brain, but it must be done with the same intent in the heart and the mind together.

 

Act as If..

The next part may be the hardest part, and that is going out and acting as though it already is, because there is no point in programming the mind and saying...”Yeah! I have abundance!” and then the first time somebody walks up to you and you say, “Oh, I can’t afford it.”  Is that familiar?  You may not have the money in your pocket to pay for it at that very moment, but  what  you can do to quit from sabotaging yourself is simply say, “I choose not to buy that today, thank you.”  It’s very simple.  It keeps you in a very clear space where you don’t undo all the good you have created. 

      

But we are so programmed to say...”Ohh...ahh.. I just feel so bad!  Golly,  I  just don’t have any money and I just feel so sick and my life just sucks!”  And your life will continue to keep sucking because whatever you give energy to, whatever you romance–you’ll keep! Alright!  And that’s one of the hardest things for us to learn, isn’t it, because we are so programmed.

 

Create a Buddy System

Folks,  we have such a beautiful group here.  I feel so much energy here and I feel everybody just buzzing inside.  Maybe what we could do is look at (if you would choose to do this) creating a buddy system because we need that support.  Maybe you need to look at finding somebody here before you leave who will be your buddy (if you are a single person living alone) where you can say, “Can I call you to get reinforcement?  Can I call you to encourage you?” Just create a buddy system so when you go out of this room tonight you don’t sabotage yourself and undo all that you are feeling right now, but that you carry it forward until it manifests in your life.  Would you do that?

      

I don’t have to tell you that people out there need what you have, and that’s the only way we can do it, folks, is to be so positive and so charged that people are drawn to you like a magnet–and it will happen!